The City of Rochester has a very large LGBT community. Some trace this back to George Eastman, who never married or had any known girlfriends and was subsequently believed by some to have been gay.1 (Either that or he was likely asexual.) By the 1950s Eastman Kodak was said to have a population of gay male employees who may not have been "out" in the way we think of it, but didn't entirely keep it a secret either. Two such individuals were prominent arts patron Earl Kage and his partner, Hamilton Driggs. 2
A point of pride for the Rochester GLBTQ community is The Empty Closet, founded in 1971 at the University of Rochester by a student group called the Gay Liberation Front. Today, The Empty Closet is the single oldest continuously-published LGBT newspapers in the world.3 All back issues of The Empty Closet may be viewed online courtesy of the Gay Alliance and UR's Rush Rhees Library.
In 1973 the Gay Liberation Front voted to split into two organizations: a UR student group (known as the Pride Network since 2002) and a community group called The Gay Alliance of the Genesee Valley. The Gay Alliance remains active today as the region's premier GLBTQ organization. A full history is available on their website. The Gay Alliance is also responsible for Rochester's annual Pride Week, kicked off by the unfurling of an enormous rainbow flag (some three stories long) in the City Hall atrium. The grand finale is a Pride Parade that is the second largest in New York State. The day after is the Pride Picnic, first held in a backyard in 1972. Today it is held in the Genesee Valley Park and hosts an estimated 3,000 attendees. 4
Another historical note is the 1986 election of Tim Mains to the Rochester City Council, making him New York State’s first openly-gay elected official. Prior thereto he had been active in the Gay Liberation Front and had written for The Empty Closet. Rochester City Councilmember Matt Haag succeeded him until stepping down at the end of his term in 2017. Deceased Congresswoman Louise Slaughter was also a staunch ally of the LGBT+ community. Today, NYS Assemblyman Harry B. Bronson is the only openly gay politician representing Rochester and the surrounding region.
In May 2014 Rochester became the third city in the nation to offer transition-related healthcare benefits to transgender municipal employees. When two local shock jocks subsequently went on a hateful, transphobic rant, community outrage was swift and a petition (ultimately successful) calling for them to be fired reached 4,000 signatures in less than 24 hours.
According to a 2011 UCLA study, the Rochester area is #6 in the country for numbers of same-sex couples raising children under 18.5 Community profile site ePodunk gives Rochester a "gay index" of 161, with the national average being 100. And according to the Vocative Queer Index, Rochester ranks as the 8th most LGBT-friendly city in the nation. Albany, Syracuse, and Buffalo were ranked 7th, 32nd, and 34th, respectively.
Most of our LGBT population is concentrated in the southeast neighborhoods of Park Avenue, the South Wedge, the Neighborhood of the Arts, and Upper Monroe. On the west side, there is Maplewood.
Bars and Clubs
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Abilene - LGBT-friendly
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Lux - LGBT-friendly
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Roar - LGBT-friendly
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Vertex - Goth club with diverse crowd.
Businesses
LGBT-owned and LGBT-oriented businesses in Rochester and beyond.
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Edible's - Gay-owned restaurant.
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Ellenwood Electric - Sponsors of ImageOut.
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Equal=Grounds Coffee House & The Pride Connection - GLBT gift shoppe/coffee house offers unique Pride items, books, artwork, films, jewelry. Wi-Fi, coffee drinks, pastries. Clean, comfortable, affordable, courteous knowledgeable staff.
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Esther Brill Partner Dance Instruction - Dance instruction for same-sex couples.
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EvenOdd Creative - Local accessories brand designed by lesbian couple.
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Hedonist Artisan Chocolates and Hedonist Artisan Ice Cream - Gay-owned
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Hodge Podge Lodge - A Safe Zone
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Just Juice - Gay-owned
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PrintRoc - Gay-owned
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Renewing-Massage - "Providing accessible massage therapy services for the Rochester LGBT community."
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Rochester Spa & Body Club - All-male social and fitness club.
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Thomas Laurence Salon - Gay-owned
Events
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Empire State Pride Agenda Spring Dinner - The second largest annual gathering of GLBTQ folks and their allies outside New York City.
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ImageOut - Annual GLBT film festival
Organizations - Activism and Outreach
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Rochester Black Pride - Rochester Black Pride
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Civil Rights Front (Not sure if still active. Website not updated since 2010.)
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Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network - Rochester chapter.
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LGBT Friends of Good Government (LBGTFOGG)
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Log Cabin Republicans - Rochester/Finger Lakes chapter.
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Our Group - Advocacy and outreach for LGBT athletes.
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Rochester NOW - Greater Rochester Chapter of the National Organization for Women
Organizations - Higher Education
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Sexual Orientations United for Liberation (S.O.U.L.) - SUNY Brockport
Organizations - Hobbies and Recreational
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Dykes on Bikes - Rochester chapter
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Flower City Pride Band - The Rochester, NY LGBT band. Open to all people of all abilities.
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Frontrunners/Frontwalkers - Rochester chapter of international group of LGBT walkers and runners.
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Lilac Squares - LGBT square dancing.
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Rainbow Amateur Radio Association - Finger Lakes Chapter (Rochester and surrounding area).
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Roc City Roller Derby - "Rochester, N.Y.'s first all-women, flat-track roller derby league." GLBTQ-friendly.
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Rochester Historical Bowling Society - LGBT bowling league. Monday evenings, September through April at Clover Lanes.
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The Rochester Kink Society - GLBTQ-friendly.
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Rochester Rams - Motorcycle group.
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Rochester Women's Community Chorus - LGBT-friendly.
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Women Outdoors - Finger Lakes - LGBT-friendly.
Organizations - Social
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GALAXe (Gays and Lesbians At Xerox)
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Maplewood Rainbow Social Club - For LGBT residents of the Maplewood neighborhood.
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Rainbow SAGE at the Center - LGBT seniors.
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Rochester Gay Fathers Group - Contact the GVGA at 585 244 8640 for more information.
Organizations - Trans* Community
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Guys' Night Out - Trans men.
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Rochester Grrlz - Trans women and crossdressers.
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Rochester Trans Group - For gender-variant people and their friends.
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The Self Made Men - Trans men.
Resources
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Adolescent Transgender Healthcare Team at Golisano Children's Hospital
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AIDS Care - Now Trillium Health, formerly AIDS Rochester
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CNY Fertility Services - Sponsors of ImageOut.
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Center for Disability Rights - LGBT-friendly.
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Center for Youth - Counseling, emergency shelter, homeless youth outreach, and other programs for teens. LGBT-friendly.
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Conifer Counseling - Substance abuse counseling for members of the LGBT community.
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Everybody's Good - From AIDS Rochester Inc.: links to LGBT-friendly healthcare providers/organizations/worship, health-related info & blogs, free STD testing, more.
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Huther-Doyle - Substance recovery with LGBT-only groups and experience with GLBTQ issues.
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Out & Equal Workplace Advocates - Rochester has third largest chapter in the country.
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Planned Parenthood - Women's health services.
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Rochester Gay Men AA - Also has Park Avenue sub-group.
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Rochester Victory Alliance - HIV vaccine research.
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Therapists in the Rochester area who specialize in GLBTQ issues (from Psychology Today).
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Threshold Center for Alternative Youth Services - Confidential HIV and STD testing and general healthcare for ages 12-25.
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Transgender Alliance - Umbrella group for trans and gender variant organizations in Central and Western New York.
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Trillium Health - HIV services and beyond, specializing in LGBT healthcare
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Woods Oviatt Gilman - Law firm whose services include estate planning for same-sex couples.
Worship
Religious institutions that welcome and support the LGBT community.
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Dignity-Integrity Rochester - LGBT Roman Catholics, Episcopalians, and friends.
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Downtown United Presbyterian Church - Home of the RWCC and RGMC
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First Baptist Church of Rochester - Member of the Association of Welcoming & Affirming Baptists
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Fortunate Families - Catholic families with GLBTQ children.
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Immanuel Baptist Church - Member of the AWAB
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Lake Avenue Baptist Church - Member of the AWAB
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Mary Magadalene Church - "In the Catholic tradition."
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United Church of Christ, Congregational of Webster
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Rochester Religious Society of Friends, (Quakers)
Other
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AIDS Education Posters - Permanent online exhibit of the world's largest collection of AIDS posters. Presented by the UR Rush Rhees Library Dept. of Rare Books & Special Collections.
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Archive of posts by Andreas Rau, gay Republican and Maplewood resident, for the Democrat and Chronicle Rochester Blog.
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DonnaRose.com - Story of a trans woman originally from Rochester.
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University of Rochester admissions brochure for prospective GLBTQ students.
For more organizations and resources, please visit the GVGA Resources page.
Individuals
Links
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Rochester rates high in study of LGBT acceptance - Democrat and Chronicle (2014-11-13)
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Shantay, you stay - Article in City Newspaper about local drag queens (2014-02-19)
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Drag World - Article about the local drag scene in Rochester Woman (2013-08-02)
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Is Rochester a gay friendly city? - Discussion on City-Data.com (Feb. 2009)
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Being LGBT in the city of Rochester . . . what's it like? - Discussion on everybodysgood.com
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GayCities.com page for Rochester.
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2008-07-22 01:42:32 Our parade this year was completely underwhelming, I have to say. It seemed like the majority of the parade consisted of either churches or politicians. There were also few very actual floats! If you want to convince homophobes of how ordinary the GLBT community is, try taking them to the Rochester Pride Parade. They'll be so utterly bored that they'll wonder what in the world they were afraid of to begin with... —MariahBetz
2008-09-18 14:33:26 Learn about GLBT rights, the political process and the 2008 elections tonight at Brighton Town Hall at 7pm. —DaveMahon
2011-11-23 20:51:21 Georgia's, Muthers, Pump and Motor have all been closed now for some time. —Alex-C
- 1According to local gay friends of this editor.
- 2From a conversation with a long-time Eastman Kodak employee.
- 3http://enrollment.rochester.edu/admissions/publications/pubs/lif/lgbtqi/lgbtqi.pdf
- 4http://www.gayalliance.org/pride/history/picnic/
- 5Top Metros for Same-Sex Couples with Children, Creative Class (2011-06-29)